Independence Is The Ultimate Flex
Here's how I live Independence Day every day
Last August I fired my boss By the time I got home, I’d become a millionaire.
This is the story of how it happened, and why I think it’s the best decision I’ve ever made.
For the last seven years, I built a book of clients inside a big bank.
Slowly, one relationship at a time, I grew that book to $75 million in assets under management. I learned the business, I learned the products, and I learned the people I was serving better than anyone else in the building.
But the longer I stayed, the clearer something became: big banks don’t actually want financially savvy customers.
Confused customers are more profitable customers.
Every year, that reality sat a little heavier with me. I watched clients get steered into products that served the bank’s bottom line more than their future. I kept asking myself, how long am I going to keep being part of this?
Eventually I couldn’t take it any more. I had to get out of there,
I didn’t wake up one day and walk out.
I planned this for ten months.
I mapped out exactly which clients I believed would come with me and why. I thought carefully about how to position the move so it was, unmistakably in their best interest, not just mine.
I paid attention to current events and market performance, and I built my case around something simple the idea that people deserve the freedom to choose who manages their money and how.
When the day finally came, I didn’t just leave a job. I owned my client list outright, which meant the revenue those relationships generate now flows to me instead of the bank.
At one point I was paying the bank $600,000 a year to work for them.
That’s the mechanics behind becoming a millionaire “overnight.”
It wasn’t overnight at all.
It was seven years of relationship building followed by ten months of careful planning, compressed into one decision.
Here’s the part I’m most proud of: my clients are better off too.
They now pay significantly lower fees than they did at the bank. They have access to any mutual fund or ETF on the market, not just the small, proprietary shelf the bank wanted them locked into.
This isn’t a story about me winning at their expense. It’s a story about what happens when incentives finally line up between an advisor and the people they serve.
This move let me do two things I’ve wanted for a long time.
First, I finally became an entrepreneur, building something that’s mine instead of something I help someone else profit from.
Second, and more importantly, I get to focus entirely on helping families build generational wealth, without an institution’s agenda sitting between me and my clients’ best interests.
Going after something like this is nerve-racking.
There were plenty of nights over those ten months where I second guessed the whole plan. But I’d rather try and fail than spend the rest of my career wondering what would have happened if I hadn’t.
This is just the beginning.
I’m building this business to be a place where people actually learn how their money works, not a place designed to keep them in the dark.
If that’s something you’re interested in, whether you’re thinking about your own financial future or your own leap into entrepreneurship, I’ll be writing about both here as I go.
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